Have you ever been standing with a group of English speakers, knowing exactly what you want to say, but not knowing how to enter the conversation?
You wait for someone to stop talking.
Then another person starts.
You wait again.
A few minutes later, the topic has changed, and the perfect comment you wanted to make is no longer relevant.
This is a common problem for English learners.
You may know enough vocabulary and grammar to express your ideas, but joining an active conversation requires another important communication skill: knowing how to interrupt politely in English.
Interrupting is not always rude.
In real conversations, people interrupt for many normal reasons. They may need to ask a question, correct important information, add a relevant point, respond before the topic changes, or join a group discussion.
The difference between a polite interruption and a rude interruption usually depends on your timing, tone, body language, and choice of words.
Instead of suddenly saying:
“Stop!”
or:
“Listen to me!”
you can use natural expressions such as:
“Sorry to interrupt, but...”
“Can I just add something?”
“Excuse me, may I say something?”
“If I could just jump in here...”
“Before we move on, can I add one thing?”
These phrases tell the other person that you respect their turn while also signaling that you would like to speak.
In this guide, you will learn how to interrupt politely in English, how to join a conversation naturally, what to say in formal and informal situations, how to enter group discussions, what to do when people keep talking, and which common mistakes can make an interruption sound rude.
By the end, you will have practical phrases you can use in everyday conversations, meetings, classrooms, phone calls, social events, and professional discussions.
Is It Rude to Interrupt Someone in English?
Interrupting can be rude, but it is not automatically rude.
The situation matters.
Imagine someone is telling you about an important personal experience. If you repeatedly interrupt to talk about yourself, that may feel disrespectful.
But imagine someone is giving incorrect directions to an important meeting.
You may need to say:
“Sorry to interrupt, but I think the meeting is in Room 204, not Room 240.”
That interruption is useful.
Similarly, in a fast group discussion, waiting for complete silence may mean you never get a chance to speak.
Natural English conversation often contains short overlaps and interruptions. The goal is not necessarily to avoid interrupting completely. The goal is to recognize when an interruption is appropriate and how to make it respectfully.
Why English Learners Find It Difficult to Join Conversations
Many English learners can speak comfortably when someone asks them a direct question but struggle in group conversations.
There are several reasons for this.
You Are Waiting for a Perfect Pause
In real conversations, people do not always leave long gaps between turns.
One person finishes and another person begins almost immediately.
If you wait for several seconds of complete silence, you may never find your opportunity.
You Are Afraid of Sounding Rude
You may think:
“What if they think I am interrupting?”
This fear can stop you from speaking even when joining the conversation would be completely appropriate.
You Need More Time to Prepare Your Sentence
While other people are speaking, you may be translating your idea or choosing vocabulary.
By the time your sentence is ready, the conversation has moved forward.
You Do Not Know the Right Entry Phrases
Sometimes the problem is not confidence or vocabulary.
You simply do not know what to say before your main point.
Learning a few conversation-entry phrases can solve this problem.
20 Natural Phrases for Interrupting Politely in English
1. Sorry to Interrupt, But...
This is one of the safest and most useful phrases.
Example
“Sorry to interrupt, but could I ask a quick question?”
Another example:
“Sorry to interrupt, but I think we may have the wrong address.”
The phrase acknowledges that someone else was speaking.
That makes your interruption sound respectful.
It works well in both everyday and professional situations.
2. Sorry, Can I Just Say Something?
This is natural and slightly informal.
Example
“Sorry, can I just say something? I think Sarah made a really important point.”
It is useful in group discussions where you want to contribute before the topic changes.
The word “just” softens the request.
3. Excuse Me, May I Add Something?
This sounds polite and slightly more formal.
Example
“Excuse me, may I add something? We also need to consider the delivery cost.”
This phrase is useful in:
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meetings,
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classrooms,
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formal discussions,
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professional conversations.
4. Can I Add Something Here?
This is a very natural way to join a discussion.
Example
A: I think the main problem is the price.
B: Can I add something here? I think delivery time is also an issue.
You are not necessarily disagreeing. You are simply contributing another point.
5. Can I Jump In Here?
“Jump in” is an informal but very common expression meaning to enter a conversation.
Example
“Can I jump in here? I had a similar experience last year.”
This works well with coworkers, friends, classmates, and relaxed meetings.
In highly formal situations, use a more formal alternative such as:
“May I add something?”
6. If I Could Just Jump In...
This is slightly softer than “Can I jump in?”
Example
“If I could just jump in for a moment, I think there’s another option we should consider.”
It is especially useful in professional discussions.
7. If I May...
This is short and formal.
Example
“If I may, I’d like to add one point.”
Another example:
“If I may, there is one detail we haven’t discussed yet.”
This can sound polished in formal meetings, presentations, and discussions.
8. May I Say Something?
This is simple and polite.
Example
“May I say something? I think we should hear both sides before making a decision.”
It works especially well when several people are already speaking.
9. Can I Say Something Quickly?
This tells the group that your interruption will be brief.
Example
“Can I say something quickly? We need to leave by six if we want to catch the train.”
This can make people more willing to give you the floor because they expect a short contribution.
10. Just a Second...
“Just a second” can be used when something needs immediate attention.
Example
“Just a second—I think there’s been a misunderstanding.”
Be careful with your tone.
Said calmly, it can sound natural.
Said loudly or sharply, it may sound impatient.
11. Before You Continue...
This is useful when you need clarification before the speaker moves on.
Example
“Before you continue, could you explain what you mean by ‘phase two’?”
Another example:
“Before you continue, can I clarify one thing?”
This is particularly useful in meetings, lessons, and instructions.
12. Before We Move On...
This phrase is excellent when the discussion is about to change topics.
Example
“Before we move on, can I add one more point?”
Another example:
“Before we move on, I’d like to clarify the deadline.”
This is very useful in professional meetings.
13. Could I Just Clarify Something?
Use this when you need to check information rather than introduce a completely new idea.
Example
“Could I just clarify something? Are we talking about this Friday or next Friday?”
This interruption has a clear purpose and therefore usually sounds polite.
14. Can I Ask a Quick Question?
This is one of the easiest ways to interrupt when you need information.
Example
“Sorry, can I ask a quick question? When does registration close?”
It signals that your interruption has a specific purpose.
15. Sorry, One Quick Question...
This is common in everyday and professional English.
Example
“Sorry, one quick question—will the meeting also be available online?”
Because you describe your question as “quick,” the interruption sounds less disruptive.
16. I Don’t Mean to Interrupt, But...
This is useful when you know you are entering in the middle of someone’s point.
Example
“I don’t mean to interrupt, but there’s something important we should check before we continue.”
This can be especially helpful when the information is urgent or important.
17. Sorry to Cut In...
“To cut in” means to interrupt a conversation.
Example
“Sorry to cut in, but I think the customer is asking about a different order.”
This is natural but slightly more conversational than:
“Excuse me, may I add something?”
18. If I Could Come In Here...
This phrase is often used in discussions, interviews, and panels.
Example
“If I could come in here, I think there’s another side to this issue.”
It means you would like to take a turn in the conversation.
19. That Reminds Me...
This is a natural way to join when something another person says connects directly to your own point.
Example
A: We had terrible weather during our trip.
B: That reminds me—we had exactly the same problem when we went there last year.
This is usually more natural in informal conversation.
20. Speaking of That...
This phrase helps you connect your contribution to the current topic.
Example
“Speaking of travel, have you booked your flight yet?”
You are joining the conversation by building on something that has already been mentioned.
How to Join a Conversation Without Interrupting Rudely
Sometimes you do not need to interrupt directly.
You can look for a natural entry point.
A useful strategy is:
Listen → Connect → Enter → Contribute
Step 1: Listen First
Before joining, listen long enough to understand the topic.
Do not enter a conversation based only on one word you heard.
If two people are discussing a problem at work, understand what the problem is before offering your opinion.
Step 2: Connect Your Comment to What Someone Said
Natural conversation often works through connections.
For example:
“That’s interesting. I had a similar experience.”
or:
“Speaking of that, something similar happened to me.”
or:
“I agree with what you said about the cost. I’d also add that...”
This makes your contribution feel relevant.
Step 3: Use an Entry Phrase
Try:
“Can I add something?”
“Can I jump in here?”
“That reminds me...”
“If I could just add one thing...”
Step 4: Make Your Point
Do not spend too long explaining why you want to speak.
Move naturally into your contribution.
For example:
“Can I add something? I think we should also consider what happens if the supplier is late.”
How to Join a Group Conversation
Group conversations can be harder than one-to-one conversations because several people may be waiting to speak.
You need to recognize possible openings.
Look for Natural Pauses
Speakers often pause after:
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completing a story,
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asking a question,
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making a main point,
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laughing,
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changing topics,
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looking around the group.
These are good moments to enter.
Use Body Language
Conversation is not only verbal.
You can show that you would like to speak by:
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leaning slightly forward,
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making eye contact,
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raising your hand slightly in formal settings,
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taking a breath as if preparing to speak,
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smiling and looking toward the speaker.
These signals can help other people recognize that you want a turn.
Start With a Short Entry Phrase
Do not begin with a long introduction.
Say:
“Can I add something?”
or:
“That’s interesting because...”
or:
“I had a similar experience.”
Then continue.
How to Interrupt Politely in a Business Meeting
Meetings often require people to interrupt.
You may need to:
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correct information,
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ask for clarification,
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add important details,
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prevent the discussion from moving on too soon,
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or respond directly to another point.
Professional phrases include:
“May I add something here?”
“If I could just come in for a moment...”
“Before we move on, could I clarify one point?”
“Sorry to interrupt, but I think this affects the deadline.”
“Could I just respond to that point?”
“I’d like to add something to what James just said.”
Example
Manager:
“We’ll launch the campaign next Monday.”
Employee:
“Sorry to interrupt, but could I clarify the date? I thought the final approval was scheduled for Tuesday.”
Manager:
“You’re right. We’ll need to adjust the launch date.”
The interruption prevents a possible mistake.
That is useful communication, not rude behavior.
How to Interrupt When Something Is Urgent
Sometimes being polite does not mean waiting.
Imagine someone is about to make an important mistake.
You may need to interrupt immediately.
Useful phrases include:
“Sorry to interrupt, but this is important.”
“Excuse me, but I think we need to stop for a moment.”
“Sorry, but there’s something you need to know.”
“Just a second—there’s a problem.”
Example
“Sorry to interrupt, but that road is closed. You’ll need to take another route.”
In urgent situations, clarity is more important than perfect politeness.
However, a short phrase such as “Sorry to interrupt” can still soften the interruption.
How to Interrupt to Correct Someone
Correcting people requires care.
Avoid sounding as if you are trying to embarrass them.
Instead of:
“You’re wrong.”
say:
“Sorry to interrupt, but I think the date may actually be Thursday.”
or:
“Could I just clarify that point? I believe the figure is 15%, not 50%.”
or:
“I may be mistaken, but I thought the meeting was scheduled for Monday.”
Notice how these phrases soften the correction.
How to Interrupt to Ask for Clarification
Sometimes you should interrupt because continuing without understanding will make the rest of the conversation difficult.
You can say:
“Sorry, before you continue, could you explain what that means?”
“Can I just clarify something?”
“Sorry to interrupt, but what do you mean by ‘priority access’?”
“Could I ask a quick question before we move on?”
Example
Teacher:
“The second stage depends on the outcome of the initial assessment, and then—”
Student:
“Sorry to interrupt, but what exactly do you mean by ‘initial assessment’?”
Teacher:
“It means the first evaluation we do before starting.”
Now the student can understand the rest of the explanation.
How to Join a Conversation With Strangers
Imagine you are at a conference, social event, class, or community gathering and hear people discussing something that interests you.
Joining strangers requires slightly more care than joining close friends.
You can say:
“Excuse me, I couldn’t help hearing that you were talking about London. I’ve just moved there.”
or:
“Sorry to interrupt. Are you talking about the conference tomorrow?”
or:
“Excuse me, would you mind if I joined you?”
The phrase:
“I couldn’t help hearing...”
means you heard something without intentionally listening to a private conversation.
Use it only when the conversation is clearly public or social.
Do not use it to enter obviously private discussions.
How to Enter an Informal Conversation With Friends
With friends, you can be more relaxed.
Useful phrases include:
“Wait, what happened?”
“Can I say something?”
“Actually, that reminds me...”
“Oh, speaking of that...”
“Can I jump in?”
“No way! The same thing happened to me.”
Example
A: We got completely lost on the way back.
B: That reminds me of our trip last year. Remember when we drove in the wrong direction for an hour?
This feels natural because the comment connects directly to the existing conversation.
How to Interrupt on the Phone
Phone conversations can be difficult because you cannot use eye contact or body language to signal that you want to speak.
Use clear verbal phrases.
For example:
“Sorry to interrupt, but could I clarify something?”
“Sorry, can I stop you there for a second?”
“Before you continue, could you repeat the reference number?”
“Sorry to cut in, but the connection is breaking up.”
Example
Agent:
“So once we process the request, you’ll receive an email and then—”
Customer:
“Sorry to interrupt, but how long does the process normally take?”
Agent:
“Usually two business days.”
The interruption is relevant and polite.
How to Interrupt During an Online Meeting
Online meetings create another challenge: several people may start speaking at the same time because small delays make turn-taking harder.
Useful phrases include:
“Sorry, I think we spoke at the same time. Please go ahead.”
or:
“Sorry, go ahead.”
or:
“Can I come in after you?”
or:
“If I could add something once you’ve finished...”
If you accidentally interrupt someone, simply acknowledge it.
Example
You:
“I think we should—”
Colleague:
“I was just going to—”
You:
“Sorry, go ahead.”
This small response shows good conversational awareness.
What to Say When You Accidentally Interrupt Someone
Accidental interruptions happen all the time.
You do not need a long apology.
Simply say:
“Sorry, go ahead.”
“Sorry, you were saying?”
“My apologies. Please continue.”
“Sorry, I didn’t mean to interrupt.”
“You go first.”
Example
A: I think the main issue—
B: We also need to—
B: Sorry, go ahead.
A: I was just saying the main issue is timing.
This keeps the conversation comfortable.
What to Do If Someone Keeps Interrupting You
Sometimes you are not the person interrupting.
Someone else may repeatedly interrupt you.
You can respond politely but firmly.
Try:
“Could I just finish my point?”
“Let me finish this thought, and then I’d like to hear your view.”
“Just one moment—I’m almost finished.”
“If I could finish this point first...”
“I’ll come to that in just a moment.”
Example
A: I think we need to—
B: But what about the budget?
A: I’ll come to the budget in just a moment. Let me finish this point first.
This allows you to protect your speaking turn without becoming confrontational.
Polite vs. Rude Interruptions
Compare these examples.
Rude
“Stop talking. I need to say something.”
Polite
“Sorry to interrupt, but could I add something?”
Rude
“No, that’s wrong.”
Polite
“Sorry to jump in, but I think there may be another way to look at that.”
Rude
“Wait. Listen to me.”
Polite
“Could I just come in for a moment?”
Rude
“You didn’t explain that properly.”
Polite
“Before we move on, could I ask you to clarify that point?”
The main difference is not complicated grammar.
It is respect.
Common Mistakes When Interrupting in English
Mistake 1: Starting Too Abruptly
Avoid entering with:
“No!”
“Wait!”
“Listen!”
These words can sound aggressive depending on your tone.
Instead, say:
“Sorry to interrupt, but...”
or:
“Can I add something?”
Mistake 2: Interrupting Too Frequently
Even polite phrases become irritating if you interrupt every thirty seconds.
Sometimes the better choice is simply to listen.
Ask yourself:
“Does this need to be said now?”
If not, wait for a natural pause.
Mistake 3: Making the Conversation About Yourself
Someone says:
“My father has been unwell.”
You immediately interrupt:
“My father was sick last year too. Let me tell you what happened.”
Even if your intention is to relate, the interruption may shift attention away from the speaker.
Listen fully before sharing your experience.
Mistake 4: Apologizing Too Much
You do not need to say:
“I’m extremely sorry for interrupting, and I really apologize, but if you don’t mind, may I possibly say something?”
That sounds unnatural.
A simple phrase is enough:
“Sorry to interrupt, but can I add something?”
Mistake 5: Speaking Louder to Get Attention
In group discussions, some learners try to enter by increasing their volume.
This can sound competitive.
Instead, use an entry phrase and appropriate body language.
Mistake 6: Waiting Forever
The opposite problem is also common.
You keep waiting for the perfect moment until the conversation ends.
Remember that short, polite interruptions are normal.
Use:
“Can I jump in here?”
and make your contribution.
Formal and Informal Ways to Interrupt
Informal
“Can I jump in?”
“Hang on a second.”
“Wait, really?”
“Can I say something?”
“That reminds me...”
“Speaking of that...”
These work well with friends and relaxed groups.
Neutral
“Sorry to interrupt, but...”
“Can I add something?”
“Before we move on...”
“Can I ask a quick question?”
“Could I clarify something?”
These work in most situations.
Formal and Professional
“Excuse me, may I add something?”
“If I may, I’d like to make one point.”
“If I could come in here for a moment...”
“Before we proceed, may I clarify one issue?”
“I’d like to respond briefly to that point.”
These are useful in business, academic, or formal discussions.
How to Know When It Is Your Turn to Speak
English conversation has many subtle turn-taking signals.
A speaker may be finishing when they:
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lower their voice,
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complete a grammatical sentence,
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make eye contact with someone else,
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ask a question,
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pause,
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lean back,
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stop gesturing,
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say phrases such as “so, yeah” or “anyway.”
These signs can help you recognize an opening.
However, do not become so focused on signals that you stop listening to the actual conversation.
The best way to improve turn-taking is through real listening practice.
How to Practice Joining Conversations in English
Knowing the phrases is only the first step.
You need to make them automatic.
Practice Five Core Phrases
Start with:
“Sorry to interrupt, but...”
“Can I add something?”
“Can I jump in here?”
“Before we move on...”
“Could I clarify something?”
Say them aloud until they feel comfortable.
Practice With Videos
Watch interviews, panel discussions, podcasts, or group conversations.
Notice how speakers enter.
Ask yourself:
Did they wait for a pause?
Did they overlap slightly?
Did they say “well,” “actually,” or “can I add something?”
This helps you notice real turn-taking patterns.
Practice With a Partner
Have a friend speak for one minute about a topic.
Your task is to enter politely at an appropriate moment.
Try:
“Can I ask something?”
“Can I add something here?”
Then switch roles.
Practice Recovering From Accidental Interruptions
Practice saying:
“Sorry, go ahead.”
“You were saying?”
“Please continue.”
These phrases are just as important as interruption phrases.
Useful Mini Dialogues
Dialogue 1: Joining Friends
A: The hotel was beautiful, but it was really expensive.
B: Can I jump in? We stayed nearby last year and found a much cheaper place.
A: Really? Where was it?
Dialogue 2: In a Meeting
A: So the launch should happen in the second week of—
B: Sorry to interrupt, but could I clarify the date?
A: Sure.
B: Are we talking about the 10th or the 17th?
Dialogue 3: Correcting Information
A: The meeting starts at four.
B: Sorry to cut in, but I think it starts at three thirty.
A: Let me check. You’re right.
Dialogue 4: Asking a Question
Teacher: Once the data has been processed, we move to the evaluation stage and—
Student: Sorry, can I ask a quick question?
Teacher: Of course.
Student: What exactly happens during the evaluation stage?
Dialogue 5: Accidental Interruption
A: I think one solution would be—
B: We could also—
B: Sorry, go ahead.
A: Thanks. I was saying we could change the schedule.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. What Is the Most Polite Way to Interrupt Someone in English?
A safe phrase is:
“Sorry to interrupt, but may I add something?”
You can also say:
“Excuse me, could I say something?”
Both acknowledge the other speaker while politely requesting a turn.
2. Is It Rude to Interrupt in English?
Not necessarily.
Interrupting can be appropriate when you need to clarify information, correct an important mistake, ask an urgent question, or contribute to an active group discussion.
The timing and tone determine whether the interruption feels respectful.
3. How Do I Join a Conversation Naturally?
Listen first, identify the topic, wait for a suitable opening, and connect your comment to what someone has already said.
Useful phrases include:
“Can I add something?”
“That reminds me...”
“Speaking of that...”
“Can I jump in here?”
4. What Can I Say Instead of “Sorry to Interrupt”?
Try:
“Can I add something?”
“If I may...”
“Could I just clarify something?”
“Before we move on...”
“Can I jump in here?”
Choose according to the level of formality.
5. Is “Can I Jump In?” Polite?
Yes, in many informal and semi-professional situations.
It is common in meetings and group discussions.
For highly formal situations, use:
“May I add something?”
or:
“If I may, I’d like to make a point.”
6. What Should I Say If I Interrupt Someone Accidentally?
Say:
“Sorry, go ahead.”
or:
“Sorry, you were saying?”
Then allow the other person to continue.
A short apology is usually enough.
7. How Do I Interrupt My Boss Politely?
Use a respectful, specific phrase such as:
“Sorry to interrupt, but could I clarify one point?”
or:
“Excuse me, may I add something here?”
If the interruption is important, briefly explain why.
8. How Do I Stop Someone From Interrupting Me?
You can say:
“Could I just finish my point?”
“Let me finish this thought first.”
or:
“I’ll come to that in a moment. Let me finish this point.”
These are polite but firm.
9. How Do I Interrupt to Correct Wrong Information?
Avoid saying:
“You’re wrong.”
Instead say:
“Sorry to interrupt, but I believe the date is Thursday.”
or:
“Could I clarify that point? I think the figure may be different.”
This makes the correction less confrontational.
10. What Is the Best Phrase for English Learners to Memorize?
A very useful phrase is:
“Sorry to interrupt, but can I add something?”
It is easy to remember, clearly signals your intention, and works in many situations.
Conclusion
Knowing how to interrupt politely in English is an important part of becoming a confident speaker.
Good conversation is not simply about waiting silently until someone gives you permission to speak.
Real conversations move quickly.
People respond, overlap, clarify, ask questions, add ideas, and occasionally interrupt one another.
The key is learning how to do it respectfully.
Start with a few dependable phrases:
“Sorry to interrupt, but...”
“Can I add something?”
“Can I jump in here?”
“Could I clarify something?”
“Before we move on...”
“May I add one point?”
If you accidentally interrupt someone, simply say:
“Sorry, go ahead.”
If another person repeatedly interrupts you, say:
“Could I just finish my point?”
Remember that timing matters just as much as vocabulary.
Listen first.
Make sure your contribution is relevant.
Look for a natural opening when possible.
Use a polite entry phrase when necessary.
Then make your point clearly and allow others their turn as well.
You do not need to wait for a perfect silence before speaking.
You also do not need to compete for attention.
With the right phrases, timing, and practice, you can join English conversations naturally while still showing respect for everyone involved.